How to grow in love to cultivate loving heart, inner peace and balance
.................................
FULL TRANSCRIPT
.................................
Hi, I’m Pascale Gibon. Welcome to episode 277 of The Everyday Life Balance Show. Thank you for tuning in.
It’s St Valentine’s week, so Happy St Valentine’s Day on the 14th of February if you celebrate it.
Yes! To Love - The Ultimate Guide to Personal Transformation for Everyday Life Balance is my Amazon bestselling book. In this episode, I will share the first principle of the Yes to Love philosophy.
The Yes! to love philosophy is a calling to look at life from a different perspective.
The life perspective it pushes forward is not one of constant struggle, stress, overwhelm and hitting your head against the wall but one of peace, love and inner and outer balance.
Yes! denotes an affirmation, an engagement, a commitment and the activation of a positive perspective for your life and the world.
Love is the highest energy there is.
When you say Yes! to Love, you commit to all that is glorious.
The first principle of the Yes! to Love philosophy is to change your attitude if you want to change your environment.
Your attitude to life will determine whether you live a happy or unhappy life.
Regarding attitude, Earl Nightingale, the father of personal development, motivational speaker, writer and radio personality, expressed the following:
“Our environment is really a mirror of our mental attitude. If we don’t like our environment we have to change our attitude first.”
Our attitude is the combination of our thoughts, feelings and actions. It yields great results when it is great and bad results when it is bad.
Can you think of the consequences of your attitude when it is a good one and when it is a bad one?
For example, someone says something that displeases you, and you react harshly to what they say. The argument leaves a bitter taste in their mouth and yours.
Let me give you another example. The attitude of uncontrollable anger affects your well-being. It creates stress in the body and generates a feeling of mistrust, inadequacy and resentment.
On the other hand, a never-give-up attitude when you have a dream and face many obstacles increases your motivation and likelihood of accomplishing your desired goal.
In one of my episodes, I share the mental faculty of memory and how we need to use memory well to transform our results. If we constantly remember how other people have hurt us, we have forgotten that we have hurt others too, albeit consciously or unconsciously. Most importantly, we have obliterated how much love we have received from others and our loved ones.
A loving attitude is one of appreciation, understanding and compassion. It brings peace and balance and is not the affair of the E.G.O, which stands for Edging God Out.
For the sake of salvation, I believe that increasingly humanity needs to embody love, their divine nature, and see the world with a loving heart.
The world might seem hostile because you choose to view it as such. Additionally, if you believe it is so, this is how it will appear in reality due to two divine laws: the law of cause and effect and the law of vibration.
I have a different outlook at the heart of the Yes! to Love philosophy. Do you agree that if we were to create order and design a picture whereby we look at the human condition and the world differently with the eyes of love and compassion we would build a better world?
Remember that despite human suffering, so much beauty surrounds us.
We grow in love when we care about others and develop a consciousness whereby we see the beauty in things and others and not only the ugliness.
For example, I recorded this episode from Guadeloupe, a beautiful Caribbean island. As I look around, the sea, green scape, palm trees and coconut trees surround me. It’s blissful!
A great attitude yields a great result. I watched a documentary about high cases of cholera in some African countries. It appears that the solution is simple. It is to build water wells to give the inhabitants safe access to clean water.
The non-profit Wells For Life commits to drilling wells, restoring wells and building sustainable communities. This project is a lifesaver for many villages.
Darkness is necessary to see the light. It is the law of gender. Personally, I had to go through the dark night of the soul to give my life meaning. However, we do not need to sink deep into the darkness as a way of life. That is not the meaning of human existence because love is our essence. It seems necessary to learn how to shed the protective shield and rust that covers our hearts to grow in wisdom and love unconditionally.
Our attitude to life will determine whether we are capable or not of seeing the world with loving eyes and developing a loving heart. I believe that love is essential to create a better world, improve our relationships and live a great life.
Life is always happening for us. Other people’s attitude is that life is happening to them. Their mindset would be:
"If only…"
"I can’t..."
"It can’t be helped..."
"Why me…"
"Why now…"
What might transform your mental attitude is striving to find a solution to any difficulty. You do not exist to suffer but to live your best life.
In this episode, I invite you to say Yes! to Love and see the beauty in everything and everyone. See the beauty in your loved ones, friends, colleagues, neighbours and others. The E.G.O Edging God Out will help you see others’ negative side. However, there is goodness in each one of us.
It is our mental attitude that determines our environment. The goodness you desire to see in others comes from you first.
As we celebrate St Valentine's Day this week, what can you do to develop a loving attitude? Any attitude other than a loving one is contrary to your divine nature. Love is the highest energy.
My Yes! to Love vision might seem naive. However, to live in the spirit of love requires a loving attitude.
I hope you enjoyed this episode.
Remember, now is your time to transform your life one step at a time.
Your action step is to reflect on the following question: What can you do to develop a loving attitude?
I look forward to connecting with you next Monday.
Have a fantastic week of celebrating love. Take care and lots of love.
Got a question for Pascale? Click here to connect.
P.S.: Click here to set up a plan to achieve your most important goal this year and schedule a complimentary “What’s Next” breakthrough call with Pascale.
……………………….
FREE RESOURCES
……………………….
Love this?
Yes! To Love Success Habits: 7 Steps To Inner Peace, Joy And Happiness.
Listen to The Everyday Life Balance Show on Apple iTunes: http://bit.ly/id1247430885
Listen to the Everyday Life Balance Show on Stitcher: http://bit.ly/ELBStitcher
Listen to the Everyday Life Balance Show on Google Play: http://bit.ly/ElBSGoogle
Listen to The Everyday Life Balance Show on Soundcloud:
Listen to The Everyday Life Balance Show on Amazon:
…………………………………..
CONNECT WITH PASCALE
…………………………………..
https://facebook.com/pascalegibonfanpage
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pascalegibon
https://www.instagram.com/pascalegibon
https://www.twitter.com/pascalegibon
……………………...
ABOUT PASCALE
……………………...
Pascale Gibon is the #1 Bestselling author of YES! TO Love – The Ultimate Guide to Personal Transformation for Everyday Life Balance and The Essential Guide To Success Checklist - The 30-Day Challenge to Build Your Path to Success and Fulfil Your Life's Purpose.
Pascale is also the founder of YES! TO Love Academy (her live events) and YES! TO Training (or Y.T.T. YES! to True Transformation) your portal for personal transformation which helps you stand back up so that you can regain your zest for life, make your life work for you and quantum leap every aspect of your life from the inside out. The results are more joy, real happiness and success as you increase your self-expression, self-love and self-confidence, and you feel empowered.
Known as a 'Change Catalyst' for your growth, transformation, and success Pascale is highly intuitive. She has the particular talent of helping you walk 100% in your greatness with confidence and harness your unique divine gifts and abilities so that you can live your life to your fullest potential and be the best that you can be with the energy of love.
As a visionary and creative, her life's purpose is to inspire and empower you and guide you to happiness through love and joy in the context of understanding and compassion.
Meet Pascale at pascalegibon.com.
Got a question for Pascale? Click here to connect.
……………………………………………………………...
ABOUT THE EVERYDAY LIFE BALANCE SHOW
……………………………………………………………...
The Everyday Life Balance Show is a weekly self-help show for individuals who want to create more balance and harmony in their life on a mental, physical and spiritual level. Every Monday, you get access to insights, practical tools and strategies from experts in their field of wellness, personal development, life fulfilment, happiness and success and from your host Pascale Gibon. "Now is your time to transform your life one step at a time!"
………………..
SUBSCRIBE!
………………..
Subscribe to Pascale's YouTube channel: http://youtube.com/pascalegibon
Subscribe to Pascale's iTunes podcast: http://bit.ly/id1247430885
Read Pascale's latest articles and receive inspirational, transformational and motivational content: pascalegibon.com.